The Science Behind The Law of Attraction – Attract the person you love to your life.

The Science Behind The Law of Attraction And How To Attract A Specific Person.

BenLotus Edition

Author: Cach Doan


This guide is written for people who have tried to use the law of attraction to deliberately attract their EX back but failed because they are not doing it the right way, or they don’t know what they’re doing. In this book, I will explain everything about how to attract a specific person. We will look into your way of attracting someone and let’s investigate what you do wrong.

The content of this eBook is very deep, and will be very hard to grasp into your minds if you are new to the law of attraction. I hope that you are ready and let your mind be free of other thoughts before continuing. Do not let outside sources be the resistance for you to learn the content of this eBook. You must be happy while reading this book because I want you to enjoy it. I do not need the table of content for this mini eBook as I want you to read everything from the beginning to end and to apply this book seriously if you really want to attract your Ex back or someone specific.

You will find the content of this book includes other scientific law along with the law of attraction so that you can understand the law of attraction better and it can become common sense for you. Every content in this book will have proofs. Meaning, I will provide the proof to everything I said in this book. The content of this book will not be the same as in other Law of attraction eBook where you can buy online. It will not be the same as the film the secret. This book is serious to help you, it should not make any money for me out of it. You should not be paying anything for this book. Have fun reading.

How to attract a specific person into your life?

To attract a specific person, you must understand the law of attraction like how you understand the law of gravity and other common senses. And then you can use it deliberately to attract your specific person. It always work if you know how to. You cannot read a “How to” instruction and proceed to attract a specific person. This is why many books that taught you how to attract the things/person you want into your life and you try to do it, and it does not always work (mostly works with limited extend). It is because you don’t change your subconscious mind or that your subconscious mind does not change. The method they (other book’s authors) use to try to change your subconscious mind does not always because it is also depend on the learner. That’s why only limited number of people can attract specific person in forums or in the reviews of the book. You think your subconscious mind know the law of attraction, but it doesn’t know the law of attraction. What you know consciously doesn’t automatically change how your subconscious know about it. You need to let your subconscious mind know the law of attraction like it knows common senses and the law of gravity in order for it to work. Because when you read something, the information enters into your conscious mind, but not your subconscious mind. The subconscious mind is more powerful than your conscious mind. In order for your subconscious mind to absorb the idea of the law of attraction, you must find your own proofs. I will provide some proofs to help you get started.

How long does it take from learning the law of attraction until a successful attempt in attracting a specific person?

Unfortunately, the answer to this question varies because different people learn differently. For me, I learned the law of attraction for about 3 years before completely absorbing it. My failed attempt before on attracting the same person become successful after I learned more about the law of attraction. Any person after this becomes a success for me. This is because my subconscious mind learned and know the law of attraction deeply like how I know the law of a gravity and common senses. It could be faster for you because you have this book, but I am sure that it will take you at least 6 months in order for you to learn everything. You must be serious about learning the law of attraction and put a lot of effort and time into learning it. The content of this book will mostly describe how I did it during these three years. I hope it helps.

So what?

So I’ve already answered the question on how to attract a specific person. And all I told you was to learn the law of attraction deeply. Now I will tell you about the law of attraction in the next page.

I didn’t tell you exactly the step of attracting a specific person yet because in order for me to tell you this, you must know the law of attraction deeply. Otherwise, you will not understand the law of attraction completely or you will not be able to know the law of attraction like how you know the law of gravity. The end result of this will be the same, you will have a hard time attracting the person/thing you want. That’s why I didn’t tell you the steps.

Why?! Why? Why I’m doing this to you?! Why don’t I tell you already?!

Think about this, let’s say you don’t know how to swim, but you are asking me to teach you how to do water synchronized dance!

So let’s learn how to float in the water first, should we? Before learning water synchronized dance, you might also want to learn how to do front crawl, backstroke, or if you like, do butterfly swim!

Oh by the way, these are type of swims if you have no idea what I was talking about.

The law attraction is simply means the following:

1. You are what you are.

2. They are what they are for you.

3. I am that I am.

4. Fake it till you make it.

5. You don’t, then you don’t.

6. You have, then you have.

In other words, what is your current reality (either fake or real) is your reality and will be your reality, no exception.

The law of attraction is one of the universal law that controls this universe along with other law such as the law of gravity, and the speed of light, which cannot be change or altered.

The law of attraction is not a simple idea. It’s very complex. We cannot learn it fast because we cannot sense it with our common senses. That’s why we are already in page 6 of this book and still know nothing about it. Like gravity, the proof of it is through demonstration. In order for the Law of attraction to make sense to you, you must personality experience it through demonstration. I will be able to help you understand the law of attraction, but I cannot feed you this information into your subconscious mind. You must be the one to find your own proofs so you will be used to it. I will guide you on how to find this proofs.

How do we prove gravity?

Because of gravity, if you drop something, it falls down, instead of up. Well, everybody knows that! But, what it really means? What is gravity?

Gravity has played a big part in making the universe the way it is. Gravity is what makes pieces of matter clump together into planets, moons, and stars. Gravity is what makes the planets orbit the stars–like Earth orbits our star, the Sun. Gravity is what makes the stars clump together in huge, swirling galaxies. We prove gravity by demonstrating something that is falling. If we lift a material object up, and then release it, it will fall down. The falling down action is cause by the pulling of the Earth towards the object. Gravity is really two object sticking together. We can see it happens over and over again. So we know it works. A quick Google search on “How do we prove gravity,” you will find out that gravity cannot be prove with mathematical formula. We can only demonstrate it.

Why is the law of gravity important in this book?

It is because I want to use the law of gravity to compare the similarities with the law of attraction. This is to show you that the law of attraction always work no matter where you are in the Universe. The law of gravity become common sense for you, why not the law of attraction? It is because we experience the law of gravity almost instantaneously while we experience the law of attraction over time.

The Law of Attraction Relation PART 1:

The law of gravity vs the law of attraction: (This section will be very long)

Do you remember E=MC ?

To remind you of what is this equation is about, this equation shows that there are equivalence between mass and energy. It shows the concept that the mass of an object or system is a measure of its energy content. It means the ENERGY is MASS, or MASS is ENERGY. They are the same thing.

If you are not a physic fan like me, you will be lost. But I’m quite sure that you have heard or seen this equation somewhere at sometime in your life.

E stands for Energy

M stands for Mass

C stands for the speed of Light, a constant, which is 299,792,458 meters per second.

This equation controls the universe!

Pause on reading this book! Try this in google IMAGE SEARCH. Search for this “the most important equation in the universe” or something similar. What shows up the most?

Admit it, normally, the mass is more familiar to people compared to energy and the speed of light because it is (the mass) the most seen unit. The mass are easy to grasp into our minds. It simply means that the more atom an object has, the more mass it will have. We use the word mass to talk about how much matter there is in something. (Matter is anything you can touch physically.) On Earth, we weigh things to figure out how much mass there is. The more matter there is, the more something will weigh. Often, the amount of mass something has is related to its size, but not always. A balloon blown up bigger than your head will still have less matter inside it than your head (for most people, anyhow) and therefore less mass.

Back to E=MC2

So we know that Energy is Mass, and Mass is Energy. We know that Mass attracts other Mass, so is ENERGY, since we know Mass is Energy, and Energy is Mass. It means Energy attracts other Energy!

The M is use for attracting physical object (both has mass).

The E…………….. ?…… What is E?…………… What is Energy?

Admit it, you never seen it before, you only experienced it. You know it’s there. You don’t see it with your own eyes… You can feel it. Before you wonder, let me say it out….

My Definition of E:

The E is use for attracting events, circumstances, or anything that exist in the universe. It is simply a force that you can’t see. We use energy to do work.

In E=MC2­,

M is for attracting physical thing because you can touch it. For example, the moon attracts to Earth. You also attract to Earth (The falling down effect). You can touch the Earth and the Moon because they are physical object. I’m not saying you can touch the moon right now since it’s really far, but it’s possible.

E is for attracting nonphysical thing because you can’t touch E. Can you touch an event? Can you touch heat? Perhaps a wave? You can’t. So E is for attracting things that you can’t touch. It means E is for attracting events, circumstances, (events and circumstances are being created because of the energy we released), such as, you attract an event, and this event has a person, and this person is the specific person you want, and you can touch this person.

Again, the equation E=MC2­ tells us Energy and Mass are convertible. We can convert Energy to Mass, or Mass to Energy.

So you use to create M.

Hence, they are in the same equation (E=MC2­), and they are convertible to each other. (Just saying it again).

Before you said it’s not true. Keep reading… You will see a lot of proofs in this book. But I did not include them all because it will take forever, it will make me give you a complete lesson on physic, chemistry, and astronomy. But I don’t want to do that. I will only give you elementary information about it. I am here to provide you the connection of these topic to the law of attraction, I’m not here to be your physic, chemistry, and astronomy teacher. You should have learned all of these in high school or in college. You are welcome to google search any topic I told you here. You are welcome to watch a documentary on it, you are welcome to go to the library and search for the book containing the topic about it. In fact I recommend you to do so because the more knowledge you know, the more connection you can find between the law of attraction and the facts about the universe. But I can tell you now, everything I say here is true and correct and verifiable through great scientist and experts.

At this point, you might be lost, as I’m also having a hard time telling you this because I don’t know the right words to use to tell you so you can understand it easily. Unless you are a scientist and learned all Physics, Chemistry, Astronomy. You will be able to understand what I’m talking about. I’m telling you this, I have learned everything from Chemistry to Physics, and from Biology to Astronomy. Quantum physic is my favorite.

I shall continue regardless of your understanding on these field of science, and it’s up to you to do more research on it. I recommend that you to learn these science because it gives you clue about the law of attraction and how it works, so that you can make it become common sense like the law of gravity.

What a treat that I’m giving to you! I’m helping you to gain more knowledge about the world while you only want to attract your EX back. But unfortunately, there is no shortcut ways into this, you need to feed the law of attraction into your subconscious mind like how you did it with the law of gravity naturally through demonstration repeatedly.

Back to topic,

In E=MC2

E and M is convertible to each other. It means that lights (particle of light, photon), heat, waves, can be converted to matter, a physical object that you can use your hand to hold it.

The Large Hadron Collider, is the particle accelerator.

All the particle accelerator in the world are continuously (when they are operating) converting kinetic energy into matter. For example, when two protons collide at the Large Hadron Collider, LHC, the kinetic energy of the protons is converted in to tens to hundreds of particles (matter) which the experimenters then try to characterize with their detectors. Most of these particles are very short-lived and either decay into multiple less massive particles or they may interact with the detector material and create even more particles. However there will always be a significant number of electrons, protons, positrons and antiprotons (that are all stable) as the eventual result of the collision. The positrons and antiprotons will eventually annihilate with electrons and protons but in principle if they could be kept separate from ordinary matter they would all last forever. So the original two protons can create multiple protons and electrons (and their antiparticles) and this additional matter is made from the kinetic energy of the original protons.

Woah! I hope you understand that! What I really mean is, energy can be converted into matter and matter can be converted to energy. That’s it! You are emitting energies all the time. It doesn’t stop. You can’t stop it.

You are emitting energies from within your body. Heat for example, is a kind of energy. You are emitting brain waves, you are emitting infrared radiation, and you are emitting lights.

The human body literally glows, emitting a visible light in extremely small quantities at levels that rise and fall with the day.

Past research has shown that the body emits visible light, 1,000 times less intense than the levels which can be seen with the naked eye. In fact, virtually all living creatures emit very weak light.

To learn more about this faint visible light, scientists in Japan employed extraordinarily sensitive cameras capable of detecting single photons. Five healthy male volunteers in their 20’s were placed bare-chested in front of the cameras in complete darkness in light-tight rooms for 20 minutes every three hours.

The researchers found the body glow rose and fell over the day, with its lowest point at 10 AM and its peak at 4 PM, dropping gradually after that. These findings suggest there is light emission linked to the body clock, most likely due to how metabolic rhythms fluctuate over the course of the day.

Faces glowed more than the rest of the body. This might be because faces are more tanned than the rest of the body, since they get more exposure to sunlight.

Now ask yourself before we continue, are you willing to learn about the world to make the law of attraction works best for you? Once we get deeper and deeper into science, you will realize the law of attraction is always working so it can be in your subconscious mind. Sorry to disappoint you, there is no shortcut to this. You just need to find more scientific proofs on the law of attraction. That’s why knowledge is power.

You can’t just learned the steps given by other people on how to attract a specific person and expect to get result right away. That’s why most people failed, and they think they can’t use the law of attraction to attract a specific person. Do not listen to them. They said that because they can’t make the law of attraction works for them. I know a lot of people know how to use the law of attraction to attract a specific person because they either understand the law of attraction subconsciously or they learned all the proofs of the law of attraction which also help them understand the law of attraction subconsciously. That’s why I am discussing science here to relate to the law of attraction.

Once, again we shall continue with our science that we can relate to the law of attraction.

The Law of Attraction Relation PART 2:

We are made from almost nothing:

So you’ve learned a little about E = MC2, now I will surprise you with another thing and you will be surprise.

You, me, and everyone else, including the Earth, are made from almost nothing.

Atoms are mostly made of empty space. So how much space are in an atom? Very nearly all of it. Let’s take a look at an atom of hydrogen to see how empty it really is. Of course, this diagram isn’t drawn to scale…

A hydrogen atom is made from a single proton that’s circled by a single electron. How big is a hydrogen atom? The radius of a hydrogen atom is known as the Bohr Radius, which is equal to .529 × 10-10 meters. That means that a hydrogen atom has a volume of about 6.2 × 10-31 cubic meters.


How big is the proton at the center of a hydrogen atom? Recent studies indicate that protons have a radius of about .84 × 10-15 meters, giving them a volume of about 2.5 × 10-45 cubic meters.

We need to do a little more math to find out how much of a hydrogen atom is empty space:

Percent Full = 100 × (Volume Filled / Total Volume)
Percent Full = 100 × (2.5 × 10-45 m3 / 6.2 × 10-31 m3)

Percent Full = 100 × (4 × 10-15)

Percent Full = 4 × 10-13 %
Percent Full = 0.0000000000004%

If 0.0000000000004% of a hydrogen atom is full, then the rest of it must be empty:

Percent Empty = 100% – Percent Full
Percent Empty = 100% – 0.0000000000004%
Percent Empty = 99.9999999999996%

A hydrogen atom is about 99.9999999999996% empty space.


Put another way, if a hydrogen atom were the size of the earth, the proton at its center would be about 200 meters (600 feet) across.


While I wouldn’t want something that big landing on my head, it’s tiny compared to the size of the earth.


The atom is a crazy soup of electrons, positrons, quarks, photons, gluons, and so on. These are popping about and annihilating one another. It just happens that they are so evenly cancelled out to become the “empty space” picture, and it will repeat that process, the end result is an empty space, which was given to us by the 1920’s quantum mechanics, describes it extremely well.

So why things (electrons, positrons, quarks, photons, gluons, and so on) are popping out into existent? For me, it’s the law of attraction itself. Because the law of attraction is always working.

An analogy in a larger scale, an empty box the size of a refrigerator has nothing in it, but stuff (scissor, cellphone, pen, and so on) are popping out into existent and then crashed into each other and then disappear. I know this is not common sense for you until you have seen it yourself in a quantum mechanic’s laboratory. But it’s what great scientist quantum physicist see in the lab every day.

So why is stuff popping out and disappear constantly? I don’t know the answer to this, but the law of attraction answered it. Since everything in the universe moves from UNSTABLE state to a STABLE state, matter must appear or disappear to make the universe become stable. If things are stable, it will stay. It it’s not stable, it will disappear.


The Law of Attraction Relation PART 3:

Everything in the universe moves from an unstable state to a stable state:

This is also known as Mechanical equilibrium. For example, if you put the ball on the top of the hill, if it’s stable enough, it will stay there and won’t move, if it’s unstable, it will eventually roll down the hill, hitting rocks, trees, animals, or anything on its path until it stops at the bottom of the hill (or maybe not if it stock somewhere and became stable). When it’s stopped, it means it’s stable. For another example, you dropped a glass of water to the concrete floor and it shattered into pieces. The question is, who decided where the pieces go? And where the pieces will stop? The answer is you. You decide where things stop. Because when something got stuck, you know it will stop. You know when someone loses energy, it will stop. So it does. It simply goes where it is most being stable and it will stop where it became stable because that is true for you. For another example so you can get the idea, atoms bonded to make a compound or molecule because it’s unstable if it’s not bonded! We can put energy into compound or molecule to break the bond but that will make them unstable. Once it’s bonded again, it became stable. Got the idea? The universe always work this way. Everything from size of an atom to the size of a galaxy works this way. If two galaxies crashed into each other and exchanges star, they will eventually become ONE bigger galaxy when it became stable. The nuclear bomb exploded because it’s highly unstable and it became stable when it became quiet again. Now, you are part of the universe.

Think about it. If you feel you have and know that you have something while in reality you don’t have it, you are making it unstable.  In order to make the universe stable, what you think/feel must be a match.

Remember, we are always emitting energies. If you feel and know something as your reality, you are emitting that kind of energy, so that energy, will attract another energy, which associated with a specific mass, and that mass is what you’re attracting.

I say it again in numbered:

1.    You emit energy of your current reality (fake or real).

2.    That Energy attract other Energy.

3.    Other Energy is associated with other MASS. (Because E=MC2)

4.    You got the MASS (person, chair, whatever).

The Law of Attraction Relation PART 4:

The Double Slit Experiment:

The experiment shows that electron, photons, and any small particles behave as matter when we look at it and behaves as waves when we’re aren’t looking at it.

Please watch this video for this experiment:

It simply means that our conscious observation has something to do with electron changing its behavior. It indicates that our conscious controls the micro world. So when we look at it, we expect it to behave as particle because we know it’s common sense that particle as we know it should behave like particle. So what you know, what is your reality on electron, is what it will show. But when you’re not looking at it, it’s always a wave. If you look at something.

So if a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?

This shows that you created everything in this universe from your current reality (fake or real).

Now Watch this Video:

Let’s make sure we all understand what Thomas Campbell just said. He said that we have to actually look at – to observe – the measurement data taken at the two slits in order to get the particle pattern as a result. If we don’t look at the measurement data – if we erase that data without observing it – then we get what he called a “diffraction pattern”  or “interference pattern.” In other words, apparently, it’s not the act of measurement at the double slit that matters. The only thing that really matters is whether we look at the data we collected. If we look at the data, we get a particle pattern as the result. If we don’t look at the data, we get an interference pattern that waves make, even though the data was collected. If there were some independent objective reality “out there” we all share, the result of the Double Slit experiment would be the same all the time, regardless of whether someone looked at the data or not. What we have instead is a totally dependent, subjective reality that is unique for each individual and based on their observation.

To explain it more, Physicist Thomas Campbell shows “Delayed choice quantum eraser” Double Slit experiment. For all data that are collected at the same time, only the data that are being looked at will show the particle pattern, and the data that we took, but destroyed it without a trace, and having no chance to look at it again, will show the interference pattern.

For example so you can understand clearly, Physicist Thomas Campbell took 102 data and put them into data1, data2, data3… until data102, and also took the result of each data respectively to result 1, result2, result3… until result102.

He will look at data1, and then result1, he will see particle pattern in result1.

He will look at data102, and then result102, he will see particle pattern in result102.

Now, for data2 to data101, he shuffles it, and makes it into two piles of 50 and 50. He only does this with the data, not result.

Now for the first 50 data, he will look at it, and then look at the respective result, he will see all of them has particle pattern.

Now, for other the 50 data, he will destroyed it, burned it into ashes, never looked at it, so he has no chance of looking at it again, then he will look at the respective result of those data, he will see all of them are having interference pattern.


So why is this related to the law of attraction?

When you look at something, you decide what you will see. If you don’t look at it, it doesn’t exist yet. Remember, everything is base on your observation.


The Law of Attraction Relationship PART 5:

The subconscious mind can’t tell what’s real.

FAKE IT until You make it because your subconscious mind doesn’t know it’s fake.

And finally, How to attract a specific person:

In a nutshell: Put the specific person into your reality as the way you like.

It means that if you are not with this person right now, you must fake it that you are with this person. The following key points might help you:

1.    This person is currently living with you.

2.    You are sleeping with this person.

3.    You do his/her laundry.

4.    You buy foods for him/her when you’re buying to go. It means you must buy two orders and have that feeling that you’re buying for him/her.

5.    Ask him/her before sleep, “I like your smell, where and when did you buy this perfume? How come I didn’t know?”

6.    Ask, “Hey I heard this new movie is coming up in the theater and it’s really good, I think we should go watch it.”

Basically, you are with this person right now. (We know he/she is not) But you should not focus on this.

The key points of mistake:

1.    You are acting because you want him/her to be with you. (Yes we know that). But you should not think/know it like that. You are just reacting with your current reality (even fake). Remember, REACTING, not ACTING. You are reacting to what he/she’s doing right now.

2.    You have a timeline. Why would you need a timeline if you are already with this person? If you have a timeline, it means you don’t have this person with you. It means you are not attracting this person.

3.    After the reacting session, you went back to know that he/she’s not with you. Everything you did on number 1 is being reversed.

4.    Still having doubt of what you’re doing. At this point, I suggest you to start reading this book from the beginning or try to learn the law of attraction in your own until you know it as a common sense.

Important Information on a Specific Person:

Your personality, physical traits, intentions, and everything about you tell your unique energy. This energy is not static. It is fluid… It is changing over time. That’s why you change. People change over time. That means the SPECIFIC person you’re trying to attract is also changing over time. But you, them, and everyone else, are changing over time because of outside’s influence, and this influence is, again, ENERGY.

That means you can change someone because you are the source of outside’s ENERGY.

If you are attracting someone that used to be romantic, cheerful, and now unromantic, and grumpy. But you continue to feel this person is romantic and cheerful in your relationship:

Your attraction process will be:

1.    Making this person become romantic.

2.    Making this person become cheerful.

3.    Finally, this person got near you, and be with you.

4.    Get together with you and is romantic and cheerful to you.


The time to get this person as you want is 4 TIMES as long.


If you feel this person is grumpy with you, and unlovely to you, but he/she is living with you:

Your attraction process will be:

1.    This person become near you, and be with you.

2.    Gets together with you, but still grumpy and unlovely to you.

The time to get this person as you want is 2 TIMES as long.

So if you’re trying to attract a specific person and you want him/her to be the perfect person. You’re not really attracting him/her specifically! To attract him/her specifically, you must attract them even their negative traits and personalities. But we don’t want that!

One of the mistake is people think they are attracting them specifically, but in fact they are not.

It takes longer for them to come to your life because their traits and personality must change first. That’s why it takes longer! He/she can’t be with you yet if he/she does not have the traits that you want. But the good news is, you’re still on the right track, but it is just taking longer.


The Most Important Idea About the Law of Attraction

I suggest you to watch this video and understand this video fully. If you don’t know/understand this video clearly, you will never know what is the law of attraction is about. Then you will never know how to exactly attract your EX back. This idea is very important. I can not emphasize enough on how important is this video. If you feel lazy, and don’t watch and understand it, then forget it, you will not be able to understand the law of attraction and the nature of our reality.

The Good News: Once you understand the idea of the law of attraction, you will be able to make your own methods to attract a specific person or anything you want to your life. You don’t even need my method. I just created my method as a guide for you to follow to reach the same goal. But you can always make your own steps. The goal is to change what we know about reality through changing our subconscious mind.

I will show you guys the video, then I will type the explanation to it after the video. You watch the video first, then if you don’t understand it, then read my explanation, then when you understand the explanation, you watch the video again until it surely make sense to you. If you don’t understand the video and my explanation, you may response to this topic.

You must watch the original double split experiment first before watching this video. If you haven’t watch the original double slit experiment, scroll back and watch the double slit experiment again.

So here’s the video I want you to watch.

My explanation is here:

Before we start, here are what you need to keep in mind:

D0D1D2D3, and D4 are devices that records the results. It’s like the wall behind in the double split experiment.

Ma  and Mb – Mirrors that use to reflect the photon.

BSa, BSb , BSc  – A bean splitter that randomly let a photo pass through or reflect it back. It is 50%-50% chances.

Glan-Thompson Prism – The prism that focus photons to the direction indicate in the diagram above.

BBO – Beta Barium Borate. We use this to entangled the two photons. Don’t worry about this part.

PS – A prism that sends the photon along divergent paths depending on whether it came from slit A or slit B.

Lense – A lense that use to focus the photons to D0.

Don’t worry about the coincidence counter for now, it’s just a counter that we use in physics.

This experiment started as: Photon(s) is shot to the double slit (A and B). At this time, we don’t know exactly whether the photon act as a wave or a particle yet. We don’t know if it goes through A or B, or both. We do not put any measuring or detectors here. In the original Double Split Experiment, we put detectors there, but not on this one.

I will explain this by providing a number of scenarios.

Scenario 1: Both (2) photons go to D0. Both photons can come from A or B, or one from A and one from B. But we don’t know the path information.  Since don’t know the path information (From A or B, or both). So we see aninterference pattern at D0.


Scenario 2: Both (2) photons go to PS, and BSand BSreflects it to D3 and D4. Since we know the path information. We got a particles pattern on D3 and D4.

Note: We know that a photon that hit BSb must came from Slit A. And we know that a photon that hit BSa must came from Slit B. (Look at the path).

Scenario 3: Both (2) photons go to PS, and BSand BSb does not reflect the photon to D3 and D4, but it let the photo passed to Mand Mb.

Mand Meach reflects the photon to  BSc, which randomly send the photons to either D1 or D2. Because photon from Ma can end up in D1 or D2, and photon from Mb can also end up in D1 or D2, we lose the path information. Since don’t know the path information (From A or B). So we see an interference pattern at D1 and D2.

BSmessed the path information.

Scenario 4: One photo goes to D0 and one Photon go to PS.

  • If the photon that goes to D0 shows an interference pattern, the partner entangled photon will always end up in either D1 and D2, and shows an interference pattern as well. Remember that the photon that hit D0 arrived first! (It seems like it knows the future!)
  • If the photon that goes to D0 shows a particles pattern, the partner entangled photon will always end up in either D3 and D4 and also shows a particle pattern. Remember that the photon that hit D0 arrived first!


  • if you know the path information, the result will be a particle pattern.
  • If you don’t know the path information, the result will be an interference pattern.

The detector has nothing to do with the result. Remember, there is no detectors at the slit. What really controls the result is whether you know it or not. It’s your knowledge about reality that created this.

You are conscious that if you know the path of the photon, it is s particle (It’s common sense to us if something has a path, it must be a particle). Because only a particle can have a path. That is your conscious and that is what you know. So you see a particle pattern in this scenario.

You are conscious that if you don’t know the path information, you can’t tell where is the photon until you measured it at the screen, you see the pattern of probability, which is the interference pattern. The interference pattern shows that, if you don’t know about it, it could be anything. So if you don’t know about something, it could be anything.

The experiment shows that if you don’t know whether your EX loves you or not, it means it could be anything. If you know your EX loves you, then it means your EX loves you. If you know your EX doesn’t love you, so it means your EX doesn’t love you. The actual truth/answer is being created when you know about it, and that is it.

So the biggest misunderstanding that many people face about the law of attraction, is that they think they can attract someone into their life by thinking and trying to force that person back into their life. You can’t do this. It is because you know this person is not in your life. You can’t force something against what you know. What you really need to do is to change what you know. And this is burried deep into your subconscious mind.

So if you know and for sure in your subconscious mind, that your EX is with you. Then you will manifest it in no time. That is the hard part here. We can not simply change our subconscious mind, and I hope this will make you understand why you can’t attract your EX back into your life simply by following the step of how to attract the specific person.

The successful people that can attract their EX back into their life, are the people that are really good, that can somehow change the reality in their subsconcious. And I can say that is me. I saw a lot of others. And those people usually become the guru or master of the law of attraction.

So how I really do this? I can tell you now… All I did is so learn and make connection about the world. And once I know for sure without doubt that how the law of attraction works. Everything will make sense. Every move I make, there is a connection to the past. Every thing I face now, there is a connection to why it happened. All because I know it.

Up until now, if you haven’t realized. All the methods that LAW of Attraction teachers taught you. And I mean it. I mean ALL. From RS to Visualization, from Gratitude to Vision Board. Every methods, from affirmation to binaural beats, are just a way to change the reality in your subconscious mind. Once you can take control of your subconscious mind, you are the master of your life.

Every method works, but it depends on you. It depends on whether you can use these methods to change the reality in your subconscious mind.

“In fact, the mere act of opening the box will determine the state of the
cat, although in this case there were three determinate states the cat
could be in: these being Alive, Dead, and Bloody Furious.”
― Terry PratchettLords and Ladies

“A theory of reality must not only explain reality, but also knowledge about that reality because knowing reality is part of reality.”
― Ashish DalelaQuantum Meaning: A Semantic Interpretation of Quantum Theory


That’s all for now.



Readers Comments (3)

  1. You are welcome to comment on this blog post.

  2. I’m so grateful you made this again, you’re so smart. Thank you, thank you, thank you. The people who used to comment in your previous blog would be so happy if they knew about the existence of this again. But I don’t have their contacts 🙁
    By the way, do you have the 2 videos that you post once in a comment in your previous blog that explained the theory about how we connect. Once was quantum entanglement bur I can’t find it. Thank you so much. Really!! 🙂 🙂 Happy for this

  3. Hi Ben, Thank you so much for posting this very informative ebook! I have a question: I understand that in order to attract the person back, we must act as if we already have that person, however, in the “Key points of mistakes” section, especially number 1 and 3, is there anyway to avoid making those mistakes? If possible, I would love to hear you elaborate on this a bit more. I feel great most of the time knowing that the person still loves me but sometimes I have my weak moments as time passes by and he has not shown up in my physical reality. I know I know I know that he is in my vibrational reality but because it’s taking so long sometimes it’s hard to stay positive all the time. Again, thank you so much for this ebook, it’s truly wonderful and it really helped me understand LoA!
    Sending you love and light!


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